Elegance is a mindset
My name is Brenda, I'm a 23 year old Dreamer raised by a single mother. Growing up I never really felt confident, therefore, I felt the need to bring out my masculine energy as a form of protection. That brought me so much pain and insecurity. I quickly realized that I had a strong pull towards my feminine side; however, I felt like I couldn't embrace it because I didn't fit the "Beauty Standard". Only model shaped girls, with perfect hair, teeth, and skin get to feel beautiful and like princesses right? Only rich girls get to feel elegant right? Wrong. It's not the size on your clothes or the size of your bank account that defines your femininity and elegance. It's a mindset. It starts with how you feel about yourself, how you carry yourself, the standards you set for yourself and for others around you and most importantly it starts with believing that you ARE that girl.